"Don't tell them your story unless you want them being a part of it"
- meme from the internet
Ten years ago, Clarion University held a discussion about privacy and the internet. The discussion was sponsored by the CUP Athletic Department and the panel included several members of the NCAA. The discussion came in the wake of reports of several students across the country being kicked out or arrested for posting pictures of themselves committing illegal activities (mostly drug use and underage drinking) on social media sites such as MySpace, Friendster, ConnectU, Live Journal, and a relatively new site called Facebook.
Not only had schools taken to looking on social media, employers started looking, too. Many people have and still do lose their jobs over the things they post on these sites. Of course, there was the cry of unfair play from those who were directly affected as well as accusations of invasion of privacy by the more socially naive that didn't seem to understand that even though the interface through which they posted to these sites was in their bedroom, they were actually standing in the middle of the town square and announcing themselves to the world.
As far back as 2006, the NCAA has had a social media provision in their policy of conduct for their student athletes. They could have social media accounts, however if they chose to post ANYTHING that could potentially reflect badly on the NCAA, the participating school is expected to remove said athlete from the team and all scholarships, revoked. The specifics change as new platforms appear, but, the outcome remains the same.
I should note that this was before many of these platforms had introduced "privacy" settings for individual users. Still, it's safe to say that the halcyon days of anonymity on the internet are pretty much gone unless you code for a living. Another thing to remember is that now our nebby neighbors can spy on us more easily without getting caught. If you're worried about privacy on Facebook, just remember what my wife says: "you have plenty of privacy on Facebook. As long as you don't post anything."
Recently, it occurred to me that this issue is still relevant. Not only is it relevant but it has created a new creature. A kind of attention whore who desires attention, but, once attention is received, tells people to mind their own business. I'm sure psychologists have a name for this, I just don't know what it is. Maybe it's a form of narcissism.
The problem then lies with the nature of just being on Facebook. If you choose to post something for the world to see, you are posting with the understanding that you are inviting comments. I write this blog with the understanding that someone may have something to say about it, and I encourage it. Like it or not, if you choose to go on the internet, you are agreeing to giving up your privacy. Everyone's a public figure here. Just like in the real world, it's what you choose to share and how you choose to conduct yourself as to whether or not your experience is going to be pleasurable.
Good night and may your god go with you.